So, I think it is a bad idea to encourage women to be promiscuous and to encourage men to date these women. about you. I've never been completely on the red pill stuff mostly on the more toned down r/seduction and general PUA stuff. Because mens focus on a I love this article! This was probably written by a hoe. Not to sound like a cocky piece of shit or anything but I have a lot of positives about me and a lot going for me, a girl would be lucky to have me. And I really dont care if you feel sorry for me or not. By digging into bad ideologies, you're picking up the emotional baggage of other people and assuming it's your own. Are you worried that you're bad at sex and she'll know because she's had more experience? I love this woman and to make her feel secure I cut ties with all my girlfriends and avoided all women actually. If alpha men dont want to get married, they certainly dont have to, as some believe it is an outdated institution, and with the number of slutty women running rampant these days, choose to take advantage of these short-term prospects. and dont forget life is a stinky bitch, you call your friend in your house and he happened to be one of your wifes exes. Or, if a man is already with a woman, and he truly loves this woman. And guess what? You can't have it both ways. Because the why rather than the number of men is what really should be discussed in order to better understand who this woman has been and has become. But once you get into the booty call territory, or some other lines of just having sex with men because it is satisfying makes men look at you cynically. Its not about being flawless and perfect. Im 24 and I know better than that it dont matter wat happened to her its not an excuse to just sleep with a gang of men thats very un lady like and for a woman to do that is setting herself up to get a f*****g std. So keep railing against common sense and reality, well be here if you ever stop. You say we shouldnt judge someone on their past? ', This affirms the theory that women only see high tier males. Disappointed I decided to move on but I had to know what else she could be hiding. @NATASHAYOU ARE CORRECTIT DOESNT MAKEONE BETTER BUT IT DOES MAKE YOU WISER THAN THE GIRL WHO HAS BEEN WITH 100 PLUS PARTNERS. Fortunately for me he had an affair 18 Reply r3l_b 4 yr. ago She just revealed something from her past and instead of embracing who she is today you are making a choice to hold it over her head and view her as the woman she once was. Thats insane. Women who have had a high number of sexual partners usually have little respect for their bodies or their lives in general. This doesnt make them bad people, but it does make them completely unsuitable as life mates. personal advocate now and then intervening for me. Women need to get it together!!!! Some ladies go through the hoe stroll because they feel insecure (maybe no strong father presence, sexual abuse, etc) or because they truly love sex and they want it. And I suppose that a man or woman states it was only sex can be trusted not to sleep around since its only sex and not all men are like that its just an excuse to get laid. The first onewasvery faithful loyaland gave no other man any indication that he had any shot with her while the other flirtedetc and didnt see anything wrong with it because she hadnt had sex with anyone. The Virgin guy is one by choice. People are different, and want different things at different times in their lives. There are women who have been with very few men and still experience the same issues. The number is certainly not all that matters. If so, thats not love. Upon my first penetration with her, i could still tell that she was experienced just from the sheer mechanics of her vagina. The double standard thing is something that a lot of people ignore because I guess they feel as if, women should behave in such manner that is acceptable to society! I agree to disagree on your comment. As for Step your game up! Sex shouldnt be a competition. She made a vow to stay faithful and she broke it. So that we, too, can be raised with you on the last day! Not to mention the problems I've tried to avoid by those men who slander her name. Not for who they once were and no longer are. I was married before her and would still be married had my first wife been half the woman she is! Its not unusual for women in my age bracket (53) to have had 100 men! So what. That is all the article is trying to say. STDs are always a risk, but that usually comes up pretty early, and even if there is an STD involved if you really want to bang anyway, that's what condoms are for. Its not. I see what you are saying with the correlation, and it does make a lot of sense. I dont think that the amount of partners anyone has been with in the past should be completely reflective of who they are as a person. That doesnt define who you will be. Its only because it does matter to us that we may not want If I find out a girl I am dating has slept with 50+ people at a young age, shes gone. Which is funny because The more rare a commodity is the more valuable it becomes. I agree with that statement, I do not agree that this is due to a high number of sexual partners. In a loving relationship, no divorce (or marriage) will ever be based on financial reasons. Sexual life is not the most important aspect in the relationship, but it is a very central one. Hello Stephen I think we should all face reality It is logical they would have to go thru a selection. And I wouldnt ignore the past in a realtionship either. So they choose the wrong mate, get married, have children and are miserable. See, I can understand a man deciding not to be with that woman because their views and values dont line up. So if u sleep with 5 guys u keep a part of them five guys with you for a long time. I understand where you are coming from, but I do not fully agree. They're your property. And since passing on your genes is the most important thing, he is attracted to women most able to get pregnant. I have seen women who had only slept with one man end up being loose while in a relationship. I Think that u r bringing this up is great and it needs to be talked about more.i Think when u Get older u Think more about this things and talk about it and see that people can change and of course u go thrue life experiance different things.we r not all the same and what people do different things and shouldnt be jugded by their past. If she doesnt treat sex with respect then shes not going to consider it to be a big deal when she hooks up with someone else and leaves you wondering why you just wasted two years of your life with her. Most people have past sexual histories, but hiding them from someone that you are supposed to love and trust is setting oneself up for failure in the future. Posted August 24, 2015. over 100 is just obvious, whether you see yourself as having a modern approach What happens to the guy that took a chance on her got his emotions wrapped up in her only to have them stomped on? Ive broken hearts and have been burned myself. Men should do the same, but with women it is even I dont even make eye contact with other men. Dont get mad if needs/wants change. I dont think that women should be labeled as whores, hoes, or sluts simply based on a number. Studs work for every notch in there belt. Its just societal ideals and norms. Wants to claim equality between men and women, but cant handle criticism as well as a man, not as physically strong or tall as a man . You already know what the homies are saying. She will hardly change, Yes its does matter every man a woman sleeps with leaves DNA in them. If you are not compatible in how you view the world and along with many other views you may not be good together. She is still fully capable of satisfying a man and fulfilling his needs.by the way, I would love for you to post your comment on the blog itself : ) let people see other perspectives. I think this line of thought has been promoted as she said she's "only slept with one person this year" in a serious way when I have only slept with one person my whole life. If you feel that this is the case, maybe consider whether it is fair for her to have you in her life. Thats such a cop-out. That little double-standard pointing finger that got as part of your hand needs to do a serious u-turn back to the purity? You can talk a good talk a good talk about how the The Almighty GOD being nothing but a storybook fable all you want. And, remember, Neighbor, even one sex act outside of or before marriage is considered promiscuous and, definitely sinful for males or females in His eyes. No one said that men cant sleep around in their 20s. ever since the sexual revolution the chances for marriage in Western society have declined and its exactly because of the easy availability of poontang( and the attitude of divorce court towards men).Should not matter ? I'm trying to reflect on it and I'm going to bring it up to my therapist but things are moving fast and I won't see my therapist for a week from today. Marriage is a serious commitment intended to last a lifetime. Im a male and feel that woman and young ladies do get a bad rap when it comes to sex and thier numbers. All the pain caused by others will really be dumped on to her life long partner. What can Mainly because I got tired of men judging me. Hes not stating that women are divorcing because they cheat. Youre talking like sex just happens when in reality most of these women with hella bodies make conscious decisions to let all of these men have a part of them. Lets say it was you in their spot. Now lets imagine you want to buy a car and you go to the dealership and you see a car that you really like and the salesman tells you that the car that you feel is so beautiful and would make such a great addition to your life has 289,832 miles on it (NOTE: before the comments flow in about what if the car only had one previous owner, which Id be more than happy to discuss, for the sake of this article this is only to focus on the number of miles). First I would like to say that any woman who feel that there is a double standard with this topic, generally has a high count of partners. to pass on genes in males). Ask any man if he wants to marry a woman who It was the fact that she had not worked through her issues and resolved the things that contributed to her taking this route. You slept with so many people? Doctor lady walks up and says hey it has been forever how are you. You can mutter no, no, no as long as you want, but that doesnt change evolution. So in applying it to what you just said. & What makes it worse is even most women have adopted this way of thinking ! This is, of course, regarding those who have been honest enough to disclose details about their past. A girl who worked with us during the trip said "come here, I want to show you something". Love isnt about the pussy or how big the dick is. It's four times the number of people that would be acceptable in order for you to expect virginity from anyone else. And guess what, in case you hadnt noticed, men and women are different. All the sudden, I stopped wanting to sleep around and it was no longer enjoyable. Its like buying a car with 1,000,000 miles on the odometer lol!!! I think you misunderstand the article, this is not an article to promote a womans right to be promiscuous. How can that be true when most divorces end for financial reasons?Plus most women cheat because they are being emotionally neglected at home.I just dont know how you would think that most divorces occur because women who have slept around a lot arent satisfied with being with just one man.Where did this all come from? You could now be infected with some genetic disease that doesnt even run in your family. I have recently become single after a twelve year marriage and it hard enough to find someone compatible in thinking,loyalty,honesty, etc, to worry about their past. I believe it is truly best. WOMEN THAT ARE CONSTANTLY ON THE HOE STROLL MAKE IT DIFFICULT FOR WOMEN LIKE ME WHO ARE NOTWOMEN WHO CARRY THEMSELVES WITH DECENCY AND RESPECT. If a girl is promiscuous or has had behavior IN HER PAST showing lack of self-respect, self-esteem, integrity, etc., she can tell me she has changed all she wants, but shes blown her chance at a LTR with me, simply because plenty of women have the character to not do the things she did. while, recklessly, and if I crash? Most guys I know & myself do think how many people a woman has slept with matters, she is wife material only if her count is low. Gender is not a social conscript everyone. Take care. Also Men sleeping around should be judged the same as Women sleeping around! I have observed and had manydiscussions withmy female friends, colleagues, andwomen ive dated, as well as read the facebook & twitter posts of women I am less familiarwith but know thata few of my friends are VERYfamiliarity with. Its up to the individual to decide that for him or herself. Not sure if she is clued into how I've only had one sexual partner as again I am terrified to bring up this conversation about each of our amount of sexual partners. Would you still judge her as nothing more than a whore or was she simply a victim of a horrible act and didnt know or wasnt able to get the help to properly handle it. No, it should matter. you know like people. You two date and now are boyfriend and girlfriend for several months. They are hard limits for a reason. If you couldnt deal with your problems then, how is somebody else suppose to trust you with that later? I wont pretend that some people (not just woman) choose to be promiscuous for various reasons which include abuse or low self-esteem. She had to reading this I can see that you only wrote this to make yourself believe that its OK you slept with a 100 guys . Also consider that all people who engage in a lot of casual sex have higher rates of depression and low self-esteem and lower rates of life satisfaction. One can only act so long before the truth comes out. I dont want to hate on the people that made mistakes, because we can always change, but you are right on point. Maybe teach you to stop overthinking trivial things like her sexual history and maybe help you learn to enjoy being in the moment? When I used the hoe stroll term it wasnt to be offensive, it was a term that I found funny (maybe not all share my sense of humor) a friend coined that simply described a period of time where many women (for whatever there reason) is more promiscuous then she has been in her life. If you are 30 and you had sex with 30 people, its hard to accept, I'm not sure if she has cheated in the past and while I want to ask that could come off in a really bad way which I want to avoid. The past is relevant to understanding who the person was and now is. Best recognize! A girl that has been around the block is going to have a much harder time finding a man to agree to spend the rest of his life with her. This is because the kind of ppl who would say things like "dating a slut" view a woman sleeping with others casually as this terrible dirty thing. I can only hope altamera74 read your reply. I agree we should be honest, but when society creates such negative dialogue about women who have taken this route, it makes it harder be open and honest about it. Wow! Hi Stephan, I wasnt offended by the term- hoe stroll. old.) I think you are not getting the point of this article. You have married couples who though they love each other, they do not fully know, understand, and embraced the needs of the other. Well at least the second one could get justified by necessity Would you marry a prostitute? End of story. As sad and hard as it seems its true It just isnt right. cultures, from Africa, to the Middle East, to Southwest Asia, how men and women She has turned away from that since, but would you still feel you should hold this over her head? oppressed and that some of their traditions are backwards. Youtube. Sounds like a double standard to me. I take strength that it takes strength to deal with this and will hopefully make me a better more compassionate person in the end. I definitely would not marry a woman who has slept around a lot. It is a misconception and must be updated to reflect women as real human beings and not abstract ideals. I totally agree. of this fact).But also realize that a marriage strike is on and is going to get bigger. Of course orgasms will be fine. As for what would a non-spiritual person be waiting for, well I dont want to give my future post away. The football team stars and the guys who acted in movies were on that list. Phsyically, Id agree. 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